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Follow up about Bm's comments. They continued to SD and DD after I left...

stepfamilyfriend's picture

After I left our Knitting and Crochet get together, as I wrote in my last blog, they had a little dinner party at BM's house. DD and Sd were there. Today DD tells me Bm kept talking about my Dh and asked to get a copy of a picture I gave to SS of DH. It's a beautiful black and white I took about a month ago of Dh while he was at work, no posing. It really is a special picture that several people told me I should enter in a contest. Well, she told the "kids" she'd really like a copy and , get this Smile SD said " why mom, why are you doing this? You guys are not together, dad is with Stepfamilifriend..." THANKS SD!!! One thing about that girl, she does speak her mind.
I just hope this renewed enamourment with my Dh will stop. I think it's partly caused by Sd having a child and Bm wanting to re create this family they once had. I am not very happy about this at the moment. DD was telling me about it today , then added " mom, at least you know you have nothing to worry there what so ever". I know she is right, but this is a new frustrating development.


Stressed Out Mom's picture

SHe sounds like the desperate soul my boyfriend is currently divorcing. She cheated on him for 3 year and moved in and had a baby with this looser who cant hold down a job. And yet she wants my boyfriend back. Do they not realize how desperate they look. And my boyfriend say its almost sad to see her hold on to nothing.

Kes's picture

I don't think this phenomenon is all that unusual amongst rather dense, shortsighted women who don't know what they've got till it's gone - ie a good man. I had to deal with this with our BM who invited DH to go on holiday with her and the SDs a few months after we got together. This was despite the fact that she threw him out.
I think you need to take your daughter's advice and know that you have nothing to worry about - she's just a bit sad and desperate.