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Time for ss to go home

Starryeyed's picture

I am at the end of my tether and just had an explosive argument with dh.

Christmas was overall quite pleasant but I am ready for bm to take ss back now. It started yesterday. I am suffering from a cold and trying to look after a 12 week old baby when you're feeling awful is hard. Dh of course took this as an opportunity to just spend the day playing with ss. No balancing of his time at all. Then I wake up this morning and see that ss has crapped all over the toilet, of course when I mention this to dh I'm the bad guy (and no way was I disengaging and cleaning it up - he is 13 years old he is more tha. Capable). Then ss keeps going on about 10e dh owes him. He has been saying this over and over again since yesterday. This is the same kid who had a new kindle and iPhone set up for him yesterday. Of course when I said that to dh I'm now the bitch and he is ignoring me and playing with ss again. And do you know what? I actually don't care!! I'm glad I spoke up As I will not be cleaning up ss crap on top of all the other crap that goes with this situation I draw the line at this!!!

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Starryeyed's picture

Dh has actually taken my son out of the house now despite me asking him not to as it is freezing cold
Outside and I'm petrified baby will get my cold. He still took him despite me saying how selfish it is. He will no doubt be taking baby to fil house where there will be no heating turned on. Only that ss was there I would have grabbed baby out of his hands and told
Husband to leave on his own. All because I pointed out precious ss flaws.

TinyDancer's picture

Is this a thing now? I can't even imagine that anyone would ignore actual shit on the seat or anyplace else. I get that it's gross and they don't want to clean it, but what the frake?
I can't imagine....and I'm so sorry that you would have to deal with that and a new baby.

notasm3's picture

If someone that age consistently left shit on the seat I swear I would scrape it off and doctor their food with it. Or smear it on their pillow. Or if mad enough shove it down their throat while screaming obscenities. }:) }:) }:)