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Submitted by starfish on Wed, 07/18/2012 - 12:58pm

since i have been trying the stay positve route, i'm feeling pretty petty right now, but i am pissed beyond fucking belief ~ but not showing it to dh, hence the "stay positive"

1. i have been asking dh to do a specific task forever. he finally agreed he would do it. i say GREAT, i'll get the tsuff and we can do it tomorrow. dh says "we'll do it this w/e"

WTF is wrong with tomorrow? OH, your little ass gnat won't be here to ooh & awe or wtf ever it is that gives you a massive hard on that only allows you to do shit when you have your fucking audience.

but, why do i care, my task is getting taken care of, right?

2. the little pita sd calls and needs daaaddddyyyyy to take her by the store to get some shit with her own money (so it's not a money thing). ok, wtf is wrong with your mom, gma, mil or sil taking you since you are shoved up one of their asses at all times and they (except for bm) are generally just waiting on pins & needles to do something for you. OH, i bet mil said "why don't you just wait, and your daaaadddyyy can take you" (since it's only a huge inconvenience for him and he HATES shopping). but mil can never give up an opportunity to force him to pretend she's a "daddy's girl". sorry to bust your bubble mil, sd is so NOT a daddy's girl, but you just keep trying to make it true while the rest of the world sees it for what it is.

but, why do i care, wtf difference does it make in the big picture?

maybe i've answered my own questions, but this shit drives me insane!

ok, sf, breathe.... or have a cocktail, i haven't decided.

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Wed, 07/18/2012 - 1:35pm

Indeed.

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Submitted by bi on Wed, 07/18/2012 - 6:50pm

sd19 tries to force a daddy's girl relationship with fdh all the time, too. they so do not have that kind of relationship. she will sign all of her school pictures "love, your little girl". :sick: she asked me when she hinted at being pregnant and i called her on it if fdh "hated" her and addes and OMG! to the question. actually, he doesn't seem to give a shit, but i think she wanted him to be upset because a lot of dad's would be if their daughter got pregnant in her situation. she would make up stories of how she remembered her dad doing this and that for her when bs4 was a baby and she would be staring at me while i was doing things with him, like giving him a bath. she suddenly remembered her dad giving her a bath when she was little. more like run her water and let her loose. he has never given bs a bath and he's a boy, so i highly doubt that he sat there and washed her when she was little like i was doing with bs.

it really never ends. why she can't just accept that they don't have that fierce and unnatural bond is beyond me. i think she has to tell herself that crap because she knows fdh is way closer with bs than he ever was with her. he and bm split up when sd was 3 months. he didn't really raise her and wasn't in her life every day. he and bs have been together from conception. that's just what is going to naturally happen. being that she is 15 years older than bs, you would think she could accept without too much trouble, but i guess not.

ok, rant over.