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year was going good now it's one fucking thing after another

spunkiedolittle's picture

this isn't all a step vent but some (i'm just letting bs get to me) but holy hell!!!!!! starting last week it's been one freaking thing after another.

ok so issue 1)pg sd24 living with us, fixed when we took her to GA
2) i bought a car 12-23, didn't get the title in until 02-02-12
3) i got pulled over a week ago tonight and got 2 tickets equaling about 500.00 one for an expired temporary tag (had to beg the cop to not impound my car)
4) dh goes in to get vehicle registered and THIS is where it all starts

come to find out the seller of the car didn't even legally have it in their name to sell to me, and it wasn't notarized into my name until 01-25 and dealer (according to his word) didn't try to contact me until i called him on 01-31 asking for title O AND there was a registered tag that was removed from the car which would've avoided my ticket all together. and i was charged an extra 10.00 because of that (ok boo hoo i know) so i go to the dealer, let him know what the issue is (that i got a ticket and almost got car impounded) his response was "well we're not legally obligated to but here's the 10.00" wtf ever, we left. so i called dealer when i got home (cause i was THAT pissed) i told him "ok i want to know what you plan to do about this if you do nothing i will file a complaint with used motor comm, i got a ticket because you guys were past the legal time frame. he said i thought you said almost. i said no i DID get a ticket ALMOST got it impounded. his response, well, we need a copy of the ticket. i told him "ok i can fax or e-mail it" his response "no we need a hard copy" me "i was JUST in there and you couldn't ask for it then?" him "i didn't hear you clearly" me: "that's because you didn't give a damn until i told you i was ready to file a complaint" and hung up

sunday night, i go to my mom's due to weather, and to get homework done (needed a newer version of a software, she had that i didn't). i'm JUST getting started on my homework and she stops me and asks me to go get my neices from the local children's hospital THEY are ok, but have had a death in the family. sigh, so i haul ass to go pick them up. come to find out, a cousin on step dad's side drowned, here's the link to THAT story. http://www.koco.com/r/30443691/detail.html so i go get them, get to the house and take care of neices.

monday, i call dealer back, advised that i did not feel like i should have to drive back to them after being there and him not caring enough until i told him i was ready to file a complaint with the commission and if i could fax in my documents, he said "i told the owner he needed to get on that, but our fax isn't working, i just tried to send one, and it didn't go through" (uh huh sure) me: ok i'll be filing the complaint today

then i talked to sd15 yesterday, and talk about serious entitlement issues. she asked what i was doing for her dad today, i told her nothing cause i had school (we did our vday yesterday) she said o sorry, told her, no biggie, that's called being in the real world, you work holiday's bday's anni's, you'll be there soon her response was o hell no! i'll be a vet so i wont have to. i then proceeded to tell her well, how do you plan to get through life after hs if you wont work, you have to have a phd to be a vet her response was "i have a good support system" so i then told her 'well, you better if you're able, cause if you don't plan on working nights and weekends, and holiday's during high school, you wont have much of a paycheck to go play when you can/want to.........and a support system is supposed to help cheer you on when you feel like quitting and give you a hand UP to life, NOT a hand out (meaning help you emotionally, and here and there financially, cause they want to, NOT cause you expect it)----keep that in mind..

yeah, i don't have a lot of respect for her, cause her whole attitude is "you owe me" and because everyone but her mom and sd rebel against that attitude they are her enemies

i need a freaking vacation

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3littlemonkeys's picture

Sad Sorry.

Kilgore SMom's picture

I use to work for the auto registration dept. in my county. It can be a pain, and so can the dealerships, I feel your frustration. Sorry about the death in your family. Over all I'm just sorry you had a shi** week. (((((HUGS))))

spunkiedolittle's picture

me too, it'll get better, i called the court house and the tickets are almost 500 together ugh, hopefully they'll take the registration and bill of sale dates, and remove the tag ticket.