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Update on "the wheels on the karma bus go round & round".....CSA give BM a reality check

Sootica's picture

}:) So as some of you may recall from my last blog entry BM kicked off when DH approached her about adjusting maintenance payments (as she was receiving more than double the recommended CSA amount as she kept whinging she couldn't make ends meet as a single mum despite the fact that she got married 2 months back and was never married to DH so alimony was never due).BM promptly said she would contact CSA...........well CSA have written back and have informed all concerned that the maintenance payment is to be set at £142 a month. I would have LOVED to see BM's face when she got the letter!DH did attempt to settle without involving CSA and had she accepted she would have still got more than CSA recommended but alas since she suffers from Golden Uterus Entitlement Syndrome she thought by squealing to the CSA they would bestow much,much more than was initially offered.

So as a result we have had a wonderful bank holiday weekend- first time in 3 years might I add! No harassing phonecalls or texts whinging to drop SS here on Mon morning 8am or Sunday afternoon as "It's NOT FAIR" tha he is with HIS MOTHER all bank holiday weekend even though its HER weekend.

Bliss...... Smile

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LRP75's picture

So she tried to blackmail him into paying more CS by threatening to take him to court? He tried to settle outside of court, but she thought she could get more, but instead the court determined she was going to get LESS???

Holy crap-o-la girl - you are living THE child support dream!!! Biggrin Biggrin

How much money does this divert back into your household? Smile

Sootica's picture

Well prior to this we were paying £300 a month on top of this all of SS extra curricular activities, hobbies, school dinners, school uniforms and this year an extra £350 a month on the 11 plus tutor and having him more than 175 over night stays a year yet according to BM this was not enough?! Crazy right?! Trust me it took A LOT of arguements in our household to gget DH to see the light and to realise that whatever he was paying into BM's coffers was actually NOT being used on ss.

stepmomto3bioto1's picture

This is awesome!!! Gosh I wonder if she $hit herself when she read that letter?!? Hahaha to you, BM !

herewegoagain's picture

lol

Butler2014's picture

I have a ex like this! She reckoned she could get more. The csa calculated it is originally she got £40 more however they then had to re do it as they had to Add his two dependents from our house on and it reduced it to less than what we paid her. We now give her no extra for anything. Unfortunately theybthink the world has to be given to them

on a plate. My eldest son all I ask his dad for isnhis maintenance: she would still have to pay rent, had and electric etc on her own. Some women eh! So pleased for you that’s its worked and you have had a quiet bank holiday xxx