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BM and the Bra

smurfy1smile's picture

Okay, this may be stupid to you but it annoys the heck out of me.

BM is 5ft-3 inches and almost that big around, she nevered looked pregnant anyway, she never wears a bra. Not a big deal to some but she is quite busty and its really gross having to see these huge things hanging out for all to see. She wears spagetti strapped tank tops, the ones that have a little spandex, for "shaping". She has clevage almost to her navel. Its just nasty. She nevered covered up while nursing infront of everyone and god. It have seen her bare breast more than once, total accidents on my part - its harder than you think to just glance around the room for 20 minutes and not look at anything. Disgusting - yes, I feel the human body is beautiful but bras were made for a reason. BF's mother asked (in the nicest way possbile) BM why she did not wear a bra since support is so important when nursing and when you are busty and BF responded these (the little tank top) have some support.

Its pretty nasty and really sad that male members of BF's family are making comments that they are offended. BM would never hear any of this.

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everythinghappens4areason's picture

This isnt BM related, but it brought back a memory when I was reading this. Apprx. 6 years ago I took my kids to Six Flags, first time they have ever been to the States.

My son was on a ride facing this woman with about the same shape as what you indicated the BM is, along with one of those tank tops.

Well let me tell you, he had the most horrifying ride he told me. He said once the ride started and they were being whipped around, her breasts came out and were flinging every which way....she could not put them back in to make them stay!

My son, who was 12 at the time got off of that ride which HUGE eyes..almost in shock. I said whats the matter, was it scary. He said the only thing scary was that woman and he pointed her out. Then he told me the story of his ride and what he had witnessed. He said mom, I think boobs are cool to look at (just starting his puberty) but that was the nastiest site I have ever seen!! That lady needs to understand that wearing a bra is something she should do so she doesnt scare all the other kids here!!

I laughed and laughed...he did have a good point. He often brings this ride up to others because he still cant believe that he actually seen this....LOL.

I too am big busted and I would NEVER think about not wearing a bra. I do not want to be sagging to my ankles by 40, so going braless is not an option...too bad your BM wouldnt realize it!

corie

stired_crazy's picture

That is TOOOO funny!
OMG, tramatized for life, what a vaction to the states hu?
For sure a trip he will never forget about American women( that could be good or bad)..lol.

smurfy1smile's picture

Corie,

BF and I laughed so hard we almost wet ourselves. Your poor BS. I am guessing he survived his experience and I feel for him.

everythinghappens4areason's picture

He survived but we still laugh about it to this day. He remembers that experience more then any rides he went on afterwards!! LOL...so when you see BM again in this predicament...think of my story and you a smile will come to your face!!

Corie

Catch22's picture

That Corie, is a very funny story!! I have bigger boobs too (D cup..not huge..LOL) and I wear a bra from sun up to sundown...wouldn't have it any other way...Nasty indeed...LOL
I could see my 12 year old SS now if he were to witness that!! He wouldn't be able to speak for a week...BWAHAHAHA..too funny!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

debiamia's picture

BM is doing this for attention. She wants people to look at her. My husbands BM likes to draw attention to herself too.At my SD20's high school graduation two years ago she had ankle surgery four days before the graduation. She had to use a knee walker and limped around horribly.Of course she got alot of attention from everyone asking her what happened. She is about the same size as your BM and wore orange shorts and a brown shirt which were the school colors. As she limped around I kept thinking she looked like a pumpkin because she is so round. Needless to say SD was very embarrased.

ColorMeGone2's picture

I remember being in such pain at times that I couldn't stand to have a bra on. I never left the house without one, but INSIDE my house, if I was uncomfortable, I went without. Of course, that was in the beginning, while I was dealing with engorgement and cracked nipples. Once those problems went away, I could wear bras comfortably again.

♥ Georgia, the un-stepmom ♥

"Good men don't just happen. They have to be created by us women." (from ROSEANNE)

Catch22's picture

My boobs were so big after birth if I didn't wear a bra with pads in them I would have been like male cat spraying all over everyone and everything in my path!!! BWAHAHAHAHA Tooo Funny!! DH's eyes were falling out of his head everytime he looked my way..."will they stay like that?" he would ask with a huge grin..should have just squirted him in the eye!! LMAO!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

ColorMeGone2's picture

I actually DID squirt my husband in the face. Hey, I warned him to back off, but he was feeling amorous, so...! He did learn to make sure I was on "E" before he attempted any funny business.

♥ Georgia, the un-stepmom ♥

"Good men don't just happen. They have to be created by us women." (from ROSEANNE)

Catch22's picture

Sooo funny...men just don't get it do they...LOL

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

Chel Bell's picture

at six flags....our BM's favorite "hang-out" pardon the pun.....you described her perfectly, bet a mil. it was her!! ~"Resist all the urges.... that make you want to go out and kill." ~ Chel.

Most Evil's picture

you're killing me! LOL

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