Christmas is over
I'm sad to see so many of you had a stressful Christmas.
It went fine for me but my DH was pouty on Christmas Eve and day because SD15 was ignoring him. My family is visiting and his family always gets passive aggressive about it, even though DH doesnt want them to come either. He wouldn't participate in decorating cookies, decorating the tree, no pictures or even playing into the Santa thing for our little kids. We don't go to an extreme but a few little things with our kids would have been nice. I think he didn't get to do it with SD so he feels like he can't do it with our kids either.
As my family was getting ready to head out he said "let's FaceTime SD" and I said "maybe then you won't be such a Christmas hater." I had been drinking so I was snappy. He said "nevermind then" and I know I just handing him a reason to blame me for not talking to SD15 for Christmas, as if it's my fault. He said nothing about it because he's smart lol.
Now the day after he's back to normal.
I still enjoyed myself! He was a pity party of one.
Oh and SD15 posted a bunch of slutty selfies that she took down after a few hours. So yeah that has started! I'm sure DH saw them and was *so proud*. She had the time to put on pounds of makeup and take slutty pics but no time for dad.