Apologies and the fear of SKs invading my life again
What a week. I should be happy, I guess, but my head is just spinning. A little background: SD21 lived with SO and me and my children for a while. She was spoiled, but we did get along good at times. She would even say I was her best friend. But I dealt with disrespect, a vulgar mouth in front of my BD10, laziness, lies, etc. She had a temper tantrum in July and has since trashed me and lied about me to anybody that will listen, even on social media.
SD16 has followed suit and hates me just because her sister does. They have both called SO a sperm donor on Twitter.
SD14 is, for the most part, a sweet kid. However, when we've dealt with these outbursts from her sisters in the past, she has admitted to us that they make life hard for her at home if she stays close to us or acts like she likes us. She has said a couple of ugly things the past couple of months, but denied one comment and apologized for the other (directed at my BS14).
On Wednesday, I got an email from SD21 apologizing, telling me how much she missed me and loved me and her dad. I don't want to be gullible, but honestly, this girl is ABOVE apologizing to ANYONE.
On Friday, SD14 texted her daddy and asked if she could come stay at our house this weekend. She hasn't been here since July.
I was FINALLY letting go of the hurt. This house is a happy home without all the drama. I honestly don't even want SD14 here because I know she'll be drilled by her mother and sisters about every detail, every action when she gets home.
I think this is the only apology that I've ever received that I honestly didn't want. I feel evil, and ugly, and selfish. Ugh.