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Update on "Out of Control" SD16....eyeroll. Hate to say "I told you so, SO, but....."

savemysanity's picture

Just an update on a forum topic I recently posted:

http://www.steptalk.org/node/177122

SO met with BM, and her new hubby to discuss SD16. They decided that SO would go to BM's house Tuesday night and they would all sit down and talk with SD16. It was also decided that BM would tell her that if BF came to the house, he would be arrested for trespassing. AND that SD16 would NOT be left at home alone. If BM and stepdad were not going to be home, she would stay with one of her grandparents (both sets live less than a mile from her, and are retired.)

Well, the weather forecast was calling for bad weather on Tuesday, so all of the schools shut down. BM went to work on Tuesday. Then proceeded to text SO all day. "I'm sure D16 won't be home when I get there." "She said she went to a friend's house." "She's refusing to come home." "She won't answer the phone." "Call the cops."

Needless to say, the Tuesday night sit-down didn't happen.

The bad weather started coming in Tuesday afternoon, schools were cancelled on Wednesday, and BM's office was also closed.

And guess who came to visit and hang out with SD16 yesterday?

Yup.....the felonious BF.

Good job, BM.

And SO, I'm sorry to say, but your opinion, your wishes, and your attempt at discipline don't mean $HiT!

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oneoffour's picture

If nothing else the girl needs to go onto the Depo shot to prevent pregnancy.

savemysanity's picture

BM put her on birth control when she was 14 (without speaking to SO about it.....which I think is wrong, but whatever.) Let's just hope that she's continued with that and is smart about taking it. Of course, I always say there are MUCH worse things you could come home with than a baby! Ugh!

Jsmom's picture

Same shit here. BM asks for help in disciplining and then won't do it. DH is a fool for even trying to work with her. His answer has been if SD does something catastrophic, at least he knows he tried to work with BM and it is all on her. He says he won't be able to live with himself any other way. Me, I have written off both BM and SD and they are not in my life in anyway anymore.

savemysanity's picture

I believe my SO thinks and feels the same way, "at least he tried." But no matter how much he tries, it's always his fault according to BM and SKs.