After the incidents with the pee we bought him a little potty to keep in his room (prior he jus had an adapter for our toilet) and as soon as we did he stopped peeing on the floor. Yesterday there was another poo smearing incident. Today I caught him peeing on the potty with his weiner off the side of his diaper so I just took the diaper off and he told me to go away cause he had to poo. So I did. And sure enough he pooed on the potty for the first time Ever!!! I'm now wondering if the poo smearing incidents were him trying to get his diaper off and not telling anyone, and then it ending up being too late with his diaper half off. So now I've put him in undies cause I know he can get those on and off on his own. He's definitely potty shy, he doesn't want to do anything with us in the room or watching him but if we leave him to himsel he knows exactly what to do and can figure it out. I'm actually really proud of the little guy. Sometimes being a step mom is rewarding!