sorry in advance if this is too gross, i really need help!
ok... so we're in the process of potty training DD2, i think she's doing great for only being 2yrs 2months old. She basically goes #1&2 in the potty all the time when we are in a house, some time when we're in public. basically the only time she is in diapers is when we go out to the store or dinner off errands in the car, and sleeping. I need help figuring out those parts, how to get her potty trained through nap and bed time and leaving the house are my road blocks right now. And here's the gross part: sometimes when it's bed time or nap time and she goes #2 she takes off her diaper with the poo in it and throws it on the floor!!!! there have even been a couple times that she smeared the poo all over the crib, blankets, her!!!! so this has happened about 5 times now! the smearing thing only happened twice. now she's taking her poopy diaper off and throwing it on the floor without smearing the poo around. yes, when i put her to bed she has pants on, but through the potty training process we've taught her how to take them off.
here's the other part, not sure how much this plays into this but her step sister (10.5 yrs old) still poops in her pants. it's not medical, she controls it when she wants to. but dd2 knows about it, sd whines and pouts when we tell her to go to the bathroom. sd has to clean her panties, and dd knows about that too. a few times after dd went poo in her diaper she wouldn't let me change her and told me "sis-ee poo poo pants!"
so... how gross is this? how normal is this? how is sd10 affecting dd2 potty training process? what do we do about her taking off diaper? we both agree she's not ready for a big girl bed yet, she wouldn't ever sleep and would just play in her room. we try to have her go poo before its bed or nap time, but the timing isn't always right. how do you potty train through sleep time? thank you parents for your help!