Who is lying? SD or BM?
SD14 has been living with us in a different state for 5 months to go to school in person here. Her spring break starts March 5th and BM told DH that SD is lonely here and "needs to come home." DH and I booked a hotel to meet BM halfway to transport SD's computer and thought SD would be with BM starting next month.
I mentioned it to SD last night and she just thought she was going to visit BM for 2 weeks, not move back home. She said BM didn't say anything and they "only talk to say hi."
BM told DH they talk *at least* 30 minutes a night and talked 2 hours the other day. When BM called SD during dinner the other day, they were on the phone 5 minutes max and SD didn't rush BM off the phone to eat.
Is SD lying to me to not hurt my feelings or does BM just want SD home? I know if BM wants SD back, SD will do it because she won't make decisions for herself, especially against what BM wants.