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Really? BM suing for lifetime spousal support ?

rottierunner's picture

Submitted by rottierunner on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 12:56pm

Ok, so FDH has been through mediation and years of court proceedings- not for custody/child support -but for spousal support. BM (SAHBM) wants LIFETIME spousal support because she has Fibromyalgia and Epstein-Barr. :sick:

This is the same woman who called me a money grubbing whore (not to my face, of course).

I HAVE A JOB. SAHBM of SD10 does not.
BM does have the physical ability to:
Travel from Disney Florida to King's Island and spend days walking around the amusement parks
See a number of different doctors from MD to ?
Drive to pick up her painkiller prescriptions, have lunch out and drop off SD at latchkey, day camp, or school

She has a number of complaints about me (money grubbing, cold b****, husband stealing, child hater)
(She only talks this crap to FDH family, SD10's friends parents, etc..)

Any sage advice ?

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 1:24pm

My bm said that dh owed her for the rest of her life b/c she had his kids. She tried to get an extra 600 a month plus make dh pay for her cars and the maintenance on them along with paying her aunt so much a month and her mom so much a month and her dad so much a month. All this came to more than what dh was making a month. She only got CS. LOL So I doubt she will get anything more. I would keep track of all that she does too. good luck.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 1:52pm

I know it amazes me how some people seem to think that everyone else should pay for them and they should be able to get and do whatever they want without having to left a finger. :?

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Submitted by skylarksms on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 2:41pm

Is there even such a THING as LIFETIME spousal support?? What if she got remarried? Would he STILL be responsible for paying her??

I can't believe that crap. SOOOOoo happy DH had the sense to at least not MARRY BM!! She would have pulled the SAME thing. The way it was she was only working PT while having a new car and new 5 bedroom house for her and my 2 skids! At least until our lawyer got CS lowered to a reasonable amount.

rottierunner's picture

Submitted by rottierunner on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 3:12pm

I knew it!!! BM shouldn't get lifetime spousal support, for any reason.
FDH says that she is mental health issues

Do you know someone who doesn't or hasn't had a mental health issue ?

I don't. In fact, I need to quit my job because I am sick (sick and tired of work)
Ha ha ha, made me feel better. I will start keeping a log even if FDH, won't.....

THANKS!!!

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Submitted by hismineandours on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 4:15pm

If she cant' work then she should file for disability. Really she just needs to get off her lazy a$$ and go to work. I dont want to work either. Personally, I suffer from anal glaucoma. I just can't see my ass going to work some days.

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Submitted by Holly on Fri, 09/03/2010 - 2:57am

"Personally, I suffer from anal glaucoma. I just can't see my ass going to work some days."

lol - brilliant!! I'm in tears laughing here.

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Fri, 09/03/2010 - 8:49am

I do not see any judge granting this----were they married for like 50-60 years and she had been a homemaker for all of that time, a judge may grant some support regularly, maybe even for rest of life, but not if they were married only for a few years. If she has all these ailments and issues, she should've already been getting disability, and wouln't be surprised if she wasn't already. Why has this taken years to decide? And why mediation? Does she keep appealing or something? This should have been taken care of during divorce proceedings, so I am very confused by this one