It finally happened
Well I knew it would happen sooner or later and it finally did.
SS(10) texted DH on Friday afternoon and said he didn't want to come for his weekend visit, I was very surprised the BM allowed him to stay becasue usually NOTHING stands between her and her freedom on the weekends. Apparently SS had made some plans with a friend from school so DH was happy to hear that and was ok with him not visiting.
On Saturday night DH got a text from SS asking for money to buy add ons to his Fortenight game, SS has to ask becasue we have a parental control code set up on the XBox so he can't go crazy with purchases.DH said No because all week long he had trid to contact SS via phone calls and text and SS never once replied. I've talked to SS about this many times in private and told him that if his dad contacted him to please respond becasue it was very important to his dad and it was just the right thing to do even if he just said HI!. I guess DH had had it becasue he had reached out to SS every day last week and heard nothing back until he wanted something. I have to admit that I was happy that DH stood his ground and didn't give in, usually he has guilty dad syndrome and anythig SS wants he gets. I'll be curious to see how often SS decides to miss his weekends with dad now that he's done it once.