what does it matter
BM text DH at 8:30 this morning wanting to know what time for pick up. DH tells me and I said that it isn't your week he has 1st 2nd & 4th weekend this is the 5th. He said well I'm not going to say I don't wnat him so I am taking him.
He then ask me what time is good for me, this is the first time he has ever asked what time works for me and I told him that my thoughts didn't matter, it was up to him and the ex. I then informed him he was on his own for pick up today as I was not planning on going.
He wasn't happy about that, wanting to know what my issue was. My issue is this.
You (we) paid a lawyer $3700 for a custody agreement and in the 4 months that it has been active NO ONE has followed it, BM decides what time what best for HER and DH NEVER questions or has issue with it. So now on top of everything we get an extra weekend (yeah!!!). He will work tomorrow, and I will be the one stuck at home becasue SS won't want to do anything and GOD forbid he be forced to do anything he doesn't want to. I am stuck in the house 5 day a week working why not the weekend too. I don't understand why he is so insistent in having him if he knows he has to work. He is a contractor and taking SS with him isn't an option.
I am tired of feeling this way all the time, I feel so ugly and bitter all because he lets her tell him what we are doing. He says he wants to know my feeling and I said they don't matter I am ONLY your wife, not your sons mother apparently her wants come first.
Not happy right now.