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Thangs that make you shake your head at bm!

purpledaisies's picture

I posted a while back that my ss13 won an essay contest and he gets to go to the capital and to other places around the US. He will be gone for 9 days. He will leave this Fri. Anyway dh thought he was leaving Sat. and told ss13 that. SS13 told his mom that dh said he was leaving sat. WELL bm called dh and he let it go to VM, she called again right after so dh thought it was something important so he answered. Apparently bm went off on him b.c he told ss13 he was leaving sat and not fri. Dh said she made it sound like it was the end of the world that he got the day wrong and how stupid he was. He said it made him so mad that he hung up on her.

I'm thinking what is the big deal? So what if dh got the day wrong it was only one day? It's not like he has no involvement at all! :sick:

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purpledaisies's picture

I know I just don't get why she had to got off on him getting the wrong day and just one day off at that? You are right I think she just needed to take her anger out on him. I also think it might have something to with when she tried to engage dh in a conversation at midnight one night knowing I was at work and he refused. I bet that pissed her off.

skylarksms's picture

I've noticed that when H doesn't give into what BM wants, she gets pissy. Must be a common characteristic of them.

Example: BM wanted H to come into the NICU with her. I guess she wanted some kind of grandparent "bonding" moment with the new grand baby. (Never mind that H despises BM so much he wouldn't piss on her if she were on fire!) H refused to go in there - he had just gotten off work (works in a shop) and said he wasn't clean enough to go into the NICU.

After that, BM decided that anyone who wanted to see the grand baby had to come to her house. Of course, H & I are FORBIDDEN to come to BM's house. (Not like you could PAY me to go there otherwise!!)

purpledaisies's picture

Yep My dh hate bm too! He can't wait till the boys are 18 b/c he will never ever talk to her again. I know some have said that he still has to talk to her but he plans on telling his kids that they can call him and nothing should go through their mom.