Im new, i hope i can get help. I really don't know if am insecure or not, my problem is am in a relationship with my man for 3years now his loving and caring. The problem is we dont have a child together infact i don't have a child but he has with other woman '2 different women'.
So the problem is his giving too much attention on the last born, its like his obsessed, everything now is about the child, his whatsapp profile pics, statuses and Facebook, he even print the shirts with the name of the child. N i asked him no more secrets coz his children are mine as well as we staying together but il found out that his having conversation with the mother of her last born sending money behindy back n hide all of that.
When we talk about this he will tell me that he doesn't lose connection with his child, than out of curiosity i told him that am ready to have a child now since i dont have one but he just told me that his not ready. I love hos children so dearly but the tension that is happening recently makes me feel like he loves his last children more than me, i pretend to be okay but deep down im dying.