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Starting this crap again

Nymh's picture

BM thinks everyone should do what she wants with no complaint or input from them. BM told BF at pickup Friday that SS had a lot of homework to do tonight when he got home for visitation, and asked if BF could bring him home half and hour early so he could get started. BF suggested that SS just bring his homework with him so that he could do it here over the weekend. Nope, BM wouldn't let that happen (no explanation as to why, just exercising her "power" over the situation). Then BF says OK, since I'm bringing him home half an hour early, I want to pick him up half an hour early next time. BM said, "Well then don't worry about it." Excuse me, but isn't that only fair? It ticks me off that she has the audacity to ask him to go out of his way to accomodate HER - that's all this is, him accomodating HER, because she could have easily sent the homework with SS and let him do it here, but NO she MUST have control over every aspect of SS's life including when and where he does his homework - and then won't even agree to be FAIR about it. That's just plain mean and stupid if you ask me.

Also, I am thinking that if SS has "SO MUCH" homework, that means he probably didn't go to school one or more days last week. This coupled with the fact that he was sent here with two extra medicines (cough syrup for his nonexistent cough and antibiotic for his infection that has absolutely no symptoms) make me think we're lapsing back into the SS being constantly "sick" and missing school for no reason crap.

BTW - Because BF is asking to have SS for two consecutive weeks over the summer - something that is specified in the parenting plan, but BM would never "let happen" in the past - BF decided to play nice and bring SS home early with no promise of reciprocity.

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stepmom2one's picture

My SDs BM does this all the time, but usually says "OK!!!Fine!" when asked to make up the time another day.

I won't have given in if I were him, but to each his own.