I don't have to blog anymore thank you all for being there when I needed someone to talk too. I made a decision I told my Ex-finace to move out and never leave his children for me or anyone else. I told him he needed to get his life together with his children. I took Ya'll advice; you guys were right there is no need for him to leave his children for me, I a grown women and his children are just starting out, they need him more right now. Thank You all and may God Bless You! It's a tough postion being a step-mom and my hat off out to all of you. I have to admit when he left a 100 pounds were lifted off!