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Why can't BM just be normal

Ninji's picture

3.5wks since BM got engaged. Not a day has gone by since then that she hasn't been crazy.

In my blog yesterday, I stated how she was blaming SS's bad behavior on us and said he shouldn't be staying with us so much. SS decided to stay with his mom last weekend instead of coming to our house.

Last night SD calls SO. She has to call from BM's phone and BM keeps it on speaker. SO says the entire time he is trying to talk to SD, BM was running her mouth in the background. Then BM gets on the phone and tells SO that she is keeping only SD this weekend and then keeping both kids for the following two weekends. SO proceeds to tell her she can't keep his kids from him and blah blah blah. SD is in the background the entire time saying No, she wants to see to see her dad.

Of course, SO is upset when he gets off the phone. I tell him, Just hang up the phone when she does that. I tell him this every time. It’s like he is addicted to the drama.

I keep telling him to ignore her texts, FB messages EVERYTHING. She CANT just keep your kids.

I feel both excited about the prospect that I may finally be getting some kid free weekends and pissed off that this bitch is suddenly trying to play MOTY after not giving a damn about this kids for 5 years (and probably before that). I can't settle on one emotion. It’s exhausting.

Part of me wants to tell SO I don't want to hear about it anymore. Just tell me whether or not they are coming. And the other part of me knows he needs me to be there for him right now. He feels like he is losing his kids.

I hope she goes back to her old self again. She left us alone.

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SMLIFESUCKS's picture

My exH tends to be less crazy when he has his latest fling around. It's usually the fling/gf that starts with her crazy azz.

So it's quiet here on my exH front. DH has been out of town so I don't know if BM is being crazy or not, he no longer tells me anything.

Ninji's picture

I don't get it. The guy has lived with BM at least since Oct. She gets engaged and NOW she wants to pretend to care about her kids. :?

momandmore's picture

Does BM normally keep the kids from SO? I'm asking BC BM always wanted to play house every time she got a new BF. Other than that, she would just call to fight with DH or act like they were getting back together... Nothing about her kids.

Ninji's picture

This is the first time she has done this with SO's kids but when she first left him, she got engaged a different guy. She didn't allow her older two kids from a different guy to see SO for two years. He was the only father they knew and they called him dad. It's some sick game that will hurt SS and SD more than anyone.

SMLIFESUCKS's picture

It's an act my EXH plays as well. It never lasts. Usually the idiot he's screwing will buy into the lies and start sh*t with me and I pound them in to the ground.

From what the kids have said and of course I got a screenshot of the exH's ex-gf's(baby mama)'s fb, they are back together and he possibly knocked her up again. She is only on baby number 8. She is such a miserable pos that he took their first kid together and the court doesn't allow her to even SEE HIM. So yeah go back to that. IDIOTS!

SMLIFESUCKS's picture

Yep she had 5 kids, all boys before she got knocked up by my exH. They had a boy who is now around 4/5 and can't talk, is just barely potty trained.

She then got knocked up by another guy, when EXH and her were on the outs, 2 months before I had my DD17mo. Just the other day a friend sent me a question out of the blue.

Friend: "did ExH have another baby"
Me: IDK, How would I know
Friend: Read this

It was a screen shot of this girls FB page saying how she is so blessed and tired because her baby X and happy 1 month old. It's a girl.

So apparently they had been on FB back and forth talking all kinds of sex crap for everyone to see. Now EXH knows that we have mutual friends that are on his page, why put this crap out for everyone.

I told my friend politely but nicely, don't stalk my EXH and I don't care to hear about any of it unless she can prove he is harming my kids, then I will need proof to take him to court.

SMLIFESUCKS's picture

She isn't anything to my kids. She is my exH's baby mama, sex toy. She isn't allowed to be around her own kid that she had with him because she's a drug addict. So therefore at this point she isn't allowed around my kids.

That's why I told my friend to not tell me this stuff. My friend is concerned for my kids safety because when my EXH and her were together before she had their son, they were throwing furniture at each other and screaming at each other in public.

I don't concern myself with my EXH's actions as long as my kids aren't being hurt. If he marries/lives with this woman, it guarantee's he will loose 49/51% custody. So she is his Fbuddy at best but apparently he can't keep it wrapped.

momandmore's picture

I agree. Phone time interference is frowned upon in my experience. It didn't work out well for BM.
She still does it, yelling at DH and DH isn't even here. Looney freakin toons.