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Watching daddy dearest reap the rewards of how he raises and treats SD11, is it wrong to LAUGH behind his back?!

newbiemommy's picture

I won't go into too much detail. Basically SD11 is starting to act like a little teen. She ignores what she is told, started with the arm crossing, feet stomping, talking back, ect. She has been allowed to run the house and she is now beyond out of control. And poor poor SO is just sitting back dumb founded and clueless and I can't help but laugh at him. Its sad really. He used to ignore her behaviour and he still does, but more and more it is crossing over and starting to affect him, and I mean really affect him and theres no ignoring it all. I can't help but to sit back and enjoy the show. Now that he has waited 11 years to instill discipline she is fighting back at him HARD. The harder he tries it seems the harder she pushes against him and the rules. This last weekend when we got SS5 and SD3 for their weekend visit she was off stealing candy and helping themselves to it in our formal livingroom and when SO came in she was laughing at him when he walked away. Thats exactly how she feels about her dads almost too-late attempt at curbing her behaviour. The BIGGEST downside, he way of gaining control and sympathy is by wetting herself and her bed and since her daddy is trying to semi-gain control back she has been very very wet. Even at school... Yeah GROSS! :sick: Shes still his favortite, his first and most important love and his "baby girl" so she is still on a pedestal most of the time. But I can't help but just laugh at them when they are going back and forth frustrated and confused why things aren't going their way.

I'm sure many of you have great stories of SO finally reaping what they sow.

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newbiemommy's picture

We are already back to "lets start fresh". That's his go to when he doesn't want to do anything but stick her in front of a game or movie all day/night. He's already promised she can stay up all night tomorrow if she manages not to piss herself tonight. *eyeroll* Whatever, I live for those moments where he has to face his monster he has created.