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the screaming and crying..it never stops!!!!!!!

nettie's picture

ok, they came to visit today....so we were going to the movies in the afternoon of course she has a say in which movie we are goign to see (ok)no big deal , so she goes to get time table ,so i tell my husband let's go out to eat ,well all hell broke loose cause she didn't want to go..cause she didn;t have a say in that.....so the whole mood was change about everything ...she also got upset beacuse i went into her old room to get something that belongs to me. it never fricking changes !!!!!!then it just snowball into a bunch of other things...so what are they doing now? they are in the living watching a movie.....together...i guess were not going to the movie......i can't wait until they leave i was going to cook them dinner but f...them!!!!the whole day is ruin like always she has her way...again....here i am alone again....i was hoping for a better time. just put on a fake smile....and detach again im sooo lonley...how im i gonna save my marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!for this bullshit that she puts on everyone!!!
dammmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!(((((scream)))))))

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nettie's picture

they did moved out,they came for a visit...but again she start some crap just to get the atteion..and spoiled everything.......
well anyway they left with empty tummies ...now im having a glass of wine.......
breathing again
thanks cruella

klinder180's picture

I moved out of ex gfs in May because one of her kids had a 3 hour screaming fit. We tried to continue to date -- even went on vacation to Florida. They screamed cried and kept it up. Then when we came back I had them over for dinner one night and the one that threw a tantrum in May started right up.

I wish I could offer encouragement other than to tell you the day will get better...

Kevin

strugglingat28's picture

God knows how hard it is to deal with the endless bag of crap that we all seem to get. Even worse, they expect us to appreciate that bag of crap as though it is a gift or something! I'm sorry you are going through this. I have been struggling so much, too. Hence my username. It's been a daily and often moment to moment challenge to make it through the days. I can confirm, wine does wonders!!!

Find and keep some inner strength, you are dealing with a very hard situation and disrespect you don't deserve. I wish you the best, and lots of wine. Take care.

nettie's picture

THE ONLY THING THAT I GOT OUT OF THIS.....WAS THAT I GOT A CHANCE TO GO OUT WITH MY OWN KIDS......AT LEAST ONCE THIS WEEKEND....
AND THE WINE WAS GREAT!!!!!!AND BEING WITH MY OWN WAS EVEN BETTER...IT WAS LIKE OLD TIMES.....I HAVE ONE MORE AT HOME....HE'LL BE LEAVING SO ...LEAVING THE NEST :0(

I CAN'T WAIT TIL THE NEW YEAR GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND FINISH WHAT I STARTED......HAVE A GREAT DAY GUYS AND GALS!!!!