Like I really needed more drama to add to my life. This is absolutely insane and I'm ready to crack!
BM has been harassing us lately like crazy. She even went to SO's boss and told him that he doesn't pay his child support (not true. He pays her every single month).
Long story short, they used to go through an agency. SO would pay the agency, agency would pay her. He switched jobs early 2013 and BM said that she didn't want to go through the agency anymore, so we said ok, and assumed that she told the agency that we weren't using them anymore.
Fast forward almost 2 years later, and we go back to the agency because we are tired of being falsely accused of not paying. We ask to re-open our file. They inform SO that the file was never closed, and he is $8000+ is arrears. He explains that he has been paying her directly. No biggie...he has to write a letter saying that he has been paying her directly and she just has to say yes that's true and everything is fine. And she will actually owe him money because hes been paying her $100 more than he has to. so seems simple right? NOT!!!!!
We are in process of getting a restraining order against BM. We sent her a registered letter last night stating that she is not to contact us. Well shes going to get it tonight. She's gonna be super pissed. And when the agency asks her if SO has been paying, I will guarantee that she will say no. And the guy from the agency said if that's the case then we will be SOL. Its her word against his. So basically we are effed and are going to have to pay a little over $8,000 to this piece of shit poor excuse for a woman.
I really don't know how much longer I can deal with this......