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Nothing is ever good enough for this Bitch

morethanibargainedfor's picture

As previously posted, SD15 didn't call on fathers day and hasn't spoken to DH in like 2 weeks.
I spoke to MIL about it and ofcourse she tried to blame it on BM saying she probably didn't tell SD it was fathers day. Anyways MIL questioned SD on it and apparently she knew very well it was fathers day. She said happy fathers day to BMs new husband but not DH because she "he doesn't try". He doesn't know her teachers name, hes grumpy all the time, he doesn't know that its my grad....blah blah blah....all crap that BM has put in her head.
So yesterday we decide that we should go to her grad, especially since her and BM both think we don't know when it is and wont be expecting us.
So we go and get some nice flowers, leave them on the doorstep at her house and off we go to her grad. BM's new pretty boy husband sees me and then tells BM and then they are just staring at me. BM ofcourse has to make a big spectacle, dressed like shes about to walk to streets for her next client, fake hair down to her ass, fake boobs falling out all over the place. Embarrassing really. Especially when you are at a grad for 15 year olds.
Anyways after the ceremony we left without talking to SD. Didn't want to run the risk of shit starting with BM or douche bag, plus SD hasn't talked to us in weeks.

DH texts her and says "you looked beautiful, hope you had fun" etc....she texts back and says "well you didn't talk to me. where you even there? did you take pictures?" Little shit head.
Then BM texts and goes on about how he's a deadbeat because he didn't talk to her, because he didn't buy her an expensive present, because he didn't pay for her dress and makeup and hair etc. Nothing is ever good enough for these bitches. I can't take it anymore. If we didn't go to the grad it would have been "youre a deadbeat because you didn't show up". FML.

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oneoffour's picture

15 yr old girls are rabidly selfish. So ignore her snotty remarks and return with something logical like "We were there. We saw you. However we did not want to upset your mother and 'whatshisname' so we made a quiet exit. This was the best thing to do in the circumstances. But then as we hadn't heard from you in forever we had no idea what the situation was."

BM? Ignore.

Anyway, what was she graduating from at 15?

ItsGrowingOld's picture

I was 15 once! LOL I was a selfish 15 y/o but didn't treat adults and family with total disregard and disrespect. **shrugs shoulders**

oneoffour's picture

Well she only behaves this way because she gets away with it. If she was pulled into line once in a while she wouldn't think twice about behaving like this. So this is on her parents for allowing this to happen. Dad needs to ask the hard questions like "You saw us. Why didn't you come over?"

abitguarded's picture

Does he pay child support? If so, then I think he is paying his share of what was purchased. That is if BM is actually using for the kid.

morethanibargainedfor's picture

No he's not at all this time. She plays games. She's fine for a few months and then out of nowhere she hates him and doesn't call, never wants to come over, whatever. He doesn't care anymore. He's done. BM has messed her up beyond belief and I think hes starting to realize now that he will never get back the daughter that he once had.