High-profile ex wife wants me gone
I've been married to my husband for 11 years. His wife hates me- what else is new?
I am going to admit that I came into his life while they were trying to work things out one last time. I do feel gulity about that but my husband said at the time he does not have any feelings for her anymore. When she found out about me, hell broke loose.
My husband has 3 sons: 16,14,13. She has manipulated the boys into thinking that my husband had an affair with me. I've been labelled as the "other woman" or they prefer to call me "the home-wrecker". They refer to our 6 year old daughter as a bastard-child. They want noting to do with her. They want me out of the picture.
The ex is a self made career woman. Her contact lists includes a lot of rich, powerful people. Even my boss knows of her. She says that of all the people to not piss off, she is one of them. If she wants something done, she will get it done. His ex has destroyed people careers if they 'disrespect her'
I've tried to meet with her to extend an olive branch but she has declined and responded with " I don't interact with the common whore".
They have a CO, but she drops off the boys whenever she feels like it. We have taken her court but the judge just looked at my husband and said that he should consider himself lucky that he gets extra time with his kids. She then told the kids that i'm just trying to get them out of the picture. I have welcomed these kids into our home with open warms.
Husband now feels gulity because she is turning her kids against him. I've already been banned for any of their sport events, school activities. As for holidays, anytime the three of us (me, husband, and daughter) go on holiday, she calls and ask him why isn't he taking his kids?
Husband: It's because it's not my time with them. If it was, they would be coming with us. (Plus I do enjoy when they're not around)
Ex: Explain to our kids then why you don't want them around then and hands phone to the youngest. Youngest went off on him. Calling him a horrible dad. Hands phone to the second eldest- Yelled at husband. The eldest really crushed my husband.
Husband was crushed. He really did not enjoy our vacation at all. She ends up taking the boys to Dubai for a week as a way to make them feel better. She also bought the eldest a 2018 mercedes benz.
The boys are heavily influenced by their mother and she is using them to hurt their dad. The sad part is that they used to have such a loving relationship. As for backing away from his kids, husband will never do that. His biggest fear is that all 3 of his sons will want noting to do with him. He tries very hard to with them but they're just angry. Well their deflecting their hatred of me to their dad.
I thought 11 years in things would change.