:? so im new to this site but i dont know where else to look for help my stepdaughter is 3 almost 4 december 17th i have raised her since 6 months she doesnt know her bio mother! she is fully potty trained has been since age 2 she wont tell anyone when she has to go to the bathroom she scream cries as she stands sumwhere and pees her pants or can sit in her room and poop her pants and just sit in it until we smell it if you ask her if she has to go to the bathroom she will say no and are u sure she says no and you so so you need to go potty and she will say no and then 5 min later she pooped her pants she enjoys sitting in it i think! what do i do no punishment works for her!! so lost and confused on how to react and discipline!