What's your Issue(s)?
It looks like most of the posts on this site fall into one of the following 5 categories of "issues" in your SP situation (in no particular order):
*Parenting Issues (i.e. Guilty/Disney Parenting, Lack of Parenting, Differences in Parenting Styles, Differences in treatment of BKs vs. SKs, PAS, withholding/preventing agreed/ordered visitation, etc.)
*Marital Issues (Insecurities with SO's past, Jealousy/comparing yourself with to BPs, Differences in Finance Managment, etc.)
Did I miss any? Which are yours?
Mine are Parenting (1st 4 of 6 examples listed!) and Marital (Financial ONLY).
The BMs and SKs are as "normal" as can be expected given the situation - nothing much has changed here versus before marriage except SKs got older and there's been some moving around. Few issues with BS6's devil donor because he is ABC (Absent by CHOICE). CS is being paid to all CPs from all NCPs in our sitch as agreed/ordered for the most part (devil donor held out for a while and owes a lot but something is better than nothing. SS BM never paid but that's H's business not mine and SS is grown and gone now so it doesn't matter anymore. Let's just say SD's BM is either really KIND or really BLIND, so H tries not to rock that boat!)