Trying to listen to you all.
I found my breaking point a few weeks ago with my bf and his kids. It’s semi okay now, but I’ve pulled back from spending as much time at his place, and he’s doing his detective thing to figure out why. We had a discussion about it, but it’s been hard for him to digest.
His family all approached me at a big get-together to ask me how I deal with his kids, his ex, and their parenting, and to please stay with him. It was overwhelming. I told him that and said I needed some time to think. I’ve only seen him twice since then, by my choice.
I’m going over to his place to see his kids for one night tomorrow. All my boundaries are supposed to be in place.
Not sure what else to say.