My niece and nephew's new stepmom
I hope I'm not being hypocritical or critical of stepping, but I just find this odd. My sister's divorce finalized about a month ago. Her ex started dating a woman (3 kids of her own) in August. At the same time, he was asking to get back with my sister. He introduced my niece (14) and nephew (16) to her and her family right away. She showed up on my fb feed with them, so I checked out her profile. There are TONS of photos of her with my niece and nephew, all with captions like "hanging with my fave people!" "My besties!" Etc. They're plastered all over the rest of her social media as well.
My sister's been a stepmom, so she doesn't really seem angry at all. (Her kids like the new stepmom) She just seems sad, saying she's been feeling like a crappy mom lately anyway (mental health struggles).
What does Steptalk think of this situation? I feel like putting someone else's kids on your social media immediately after starting dating their dad is just...bizarre. But I don't think I can judge at all considering the situation I'm in with SD17.