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Submitted by lylagarrett on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 10:33am

I wanted to update all on my biopsy I had done last week and ask for more prayers! The results came back that I do in fact have breast cancer! I go in this afternoon for an MRI to make sure that the cancer is indeed confined to just the breast and after that will be an appointment to see the surgeon and find out my options. I am so confused, hurt, sad, mad and downright scared right now, but I know in my heart that things will be okay. I am strong, I am tough and I will beat this thing! I have to keep telling myself that because although in my heart I know all will be good, my mind keeps playing nasty tricks on me. Anyway just needed to vent a little and again ask for all to keep me in their prayers! Thanks!

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Submitted by Melody on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 11:45am

"A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey…but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong".

We can handle anything that life throws at us - We may not be able to handle it well, or correctly, or gracefully, or with finesse, or expediently -- but We will handle it. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we may as well dance.

You are in my thoughts...

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Submitted by mamaceta on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 1:12pm

Lyla,

You are in my thoughts at this tough time in your life. My aunt had breast cancer and had to endure two surgeries and chemo. I was with her helping her with the house during her struggle with cancer, it was heart-wrenching to see her go through this. She got through her fight with cancer and is now doing wonderful, I am so happy to say. I know what helped her the most was keeping a postive outlook. (not an easy thing to do!) Many times it's not the struggle that gets you down but how you react to it. It's not going to be easy, but you are a strong woman. As Melody's quote says, my aunt grew to be a much stronger person by going through such an awful experience. Her life is very different now and she is a happier person than she was before she got breast cancer.
I wish the best for you. Stay strong!

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Submitted by Candice on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 2:25pm

My thoughts and prayers are for you. I wish the best for you!

Candice

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Submitted by skye22 on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 2:32pm

I wanted to thank you for giving me some perspective. Sometimes I get so caught up in all the daily trials that I forget to just be thankful for all the good things in my life. A I am truly sorry that you are faced with this. And I hope and pray that you have the best possible outcome. You already have the attitude of a survivor!!!

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Submitted by lovin-life on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 6:38pm

I was hoping for a different outcome for you..... Be strong..and we will all be thinking and praying for you. Smile

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Submitted by goldenlife on Tue, 09/26/2006 - 8:51pm

Can you get a copy of the latest issue of MORE magazine? It's all about cancer and recent breakthroughs, alternative medicines and treatments, etc.

I saw it right after I read your post and thought instantly of you.

Please keep us posted and know that you are being prayed for continuously.

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Submitted by happy mom on Wed, 09/27/2006 - 3:26am

So sorry to hear that. I'll pray & think of you. Please keep positive thoughts and do things that will keep your mind off the surgery. You'll be fine. Please let us know the result.

-happy mom

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Submitted by stepmom to be on Wed, 09/27/2006 - 7:22pm

I produced a humble documentary film about breast cancer when I was in my 20's and followed 20 women through a wilderness retreat. It was an intense experience and you must be overwhelmed. Since you are into the forum, I bet that you would feel safe and probably really benefit from a support group of women who are going through it. I'm sure that you have thought about this already but just wanted to put it out there...

You will be on my mind, and I send you lots of good thoughts!!

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Submitted by happy on Wed, 09/27/2006 - 8:26pm

You just blog away. I am not in your shoes but I know I would be very scared too. We are all here for you and will pray as well. Your in my heart and thoughts.. as well..