OMG - I nearly just agreed to having the skids for 5 days on my own....
Heart is still racing.
OH just texted me and said BM needs him to take the kids from the 13th for an extra few days, we have them that weekend anyway.
I was all mixed up and thought he meant THIS weekend for next week, so I told him my plans with DD's but said they could tag along for most things, and that he was taking the Weds off as we had things that they can't come for. He texted back Thanks Honey, I love you.
Then I looked at the calendar.
And realised that it's the following week he's asking about. My dd's go to their dad's from the 13th for a week..... So it would have just been me and the skids while OH works, and also I have rescheduled a lot of my jobs from next week to the following week so I can spend more of the Easter hols with my kids. Was happy for the skids to join us, but NO WAY IN HELL AND ON GOD'S GREEN EARTH AM I HAVING THEM ON MY OWN, AND LEAVING THEM IN MY HOUSE SO I CAN GO TO WORK....
Madly calling OH as soon as I realised and praying that he hasn't texted OK to BM.... thankfully got him on the third attempt and he hadn't said yes yet.
Phew that was close. I made him promise me not to agree to ANYTHING without running it by me first....
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Yes, Now I am just waiting
Yes, Now I am just waiting for the BM sh*tstorm.
I predict:
That when he goes to return them on the Sunday night she just won't be there.... I think she may be going away.
Not sure what he will do then.
I think he realises after the last few months that leaving them (well really lets be honest it's SD) with me alone is NOT a good idea.
Wouldn't have honestly been that much of a problem if the dd's were here.