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Two text messages, Legally Blonde and Proud Mummy Moment!

luchay's picture

Interesting week!! Smile

Monday (ex-OH was due in court on Tuesday for the assault charges, I left it up to the Gods whether I retracted my statement of no complaint. I told the police officer who called me last week that I wanted to and he said he would get the officer on this case to contact me about it. I decided if she contacted me I would do it, and if not then I would leave it be, and i never heard from her) So. Monday Oh gets two letters - I can tell they are speeding fines - as both cars were registered in his name until earlier this month they could have been either of us so I did what I usually do and opened them - thankfully they are both his.... He is still paying off the three he got last year, and I think he may run out of points soon!
So, I texted him to ask what his address was again (I don't have it written down) as he got two fines }:) Then I forwarded them on to him.

Tuesday comes and goes, no idea what happened in court.

Friday. I get a text from him "Have I received any mail from a company called Lifeworks? I can't remember if I gave them my new address.'

LMAO - subtle NOT. Lifeworks is a counselling company specializing in mens courses for anger amangement and step families counselling.... So he's thinking he is subtly telling me that he is getting help.

I just answer "nothing from them, just the three letters already forwarded"

Saturday. We've had some tropical cyclones up north - very near to where my family are. So i get a text asking if they are all ok.

Awwww how sweet, he is showing concern for my family.

I guess he is trying to show me what a good guy he is.

Still not sure what his game is - the court thing, or some dastardly plan to win me back. Meh - whatever.

took my girls to see a local production of Legally Blonde - The Musical last night. Was great, they loved it.

Today dd12 had a ballet awards audition in the city - dance schools across the state pick their best students and they all compete for the award. Three girls from her class were picked (her and two others) DD12 and one other got HM's (40 girls; 1 winner and 7 HM's) So she was pretty pleased with that. She got a certificate, $25 gift voucher, dance bag, dance brand thongs (for your feet not underwear), and some other stuff.

And its HOT... I hate HOT....

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luchay's picture

not planning on seeing him, just finding it amusing, I think he thought that was a subtle way to tell me he was getting help....

I'm definitely not giving him the responses he is looking for.

I picture him sitting there scratching his head and wondering WHY am I not responding, why am I not talking to him, asking questions, showing interest etc.... It amuses me.

ETA. Two things did occur to me, 1. is the counselling court ordered - maybe THAT'S what happened on Tuesday (I have to admit not knowing about that - I have rampant morbid curiousity) And - either way, if he goes into it and does the right thing I hope it works for him.

IslandGal's picture

Well! He is totally trying to convince you that he's getting help and yep.. I also see it as him "subtly" trying to reach out.

Good on you for being strong!! I love how you're standing firm and refusing to yield to him!!

It DOES sound like counselling was court ordered - and yep, I'm with you in that I would LOVE to know what happened in Court!! aaarggh!!

I just can't wait for the scales to drop from his eyes about his daughter and he realises exactly how much of a spoilt brat she really is.

Thinkin' of you!