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littlemommy's picture

This is following up my post from the other day about BSC BM seeing DH at the gas station and giving him her number so "she can start bringing SD by our house". Currently BM's mom brings SD to my IL's house and DH goes over from time to time, not often tho, to see the kid. BM has a RO still in effect for a few more months at least.

DH and I were talking about this last night and he thinks it's just swell that BM is acting rational and says he would not mind if she occassionally brought SD to our house on a Sunday. Of course he mentioned this to FIL and he thinks it's just wonderful too.

Am I living in the fucking Twilight Zone??????

This woman is rabid BSC, she has stolen from all of us, spread horrible lies and is on and off drugs. I do not want her in my house! DH says that she's not on drugs anymore and so she wouldn't steal and that "it's about SD". Yes of course it is. Sunday is the one day DH has off work that we spend as a family with our son and now he wants to start having this bitch bring her kid over here, and guess who would end up watching her, bc it sure as hell won't be DH.

So I told him that that was fine if he wanted his beloved first family here on Sunday's but that'd I'd be going to my parents house and he flipped on ME, saying that SD "needs to know her brother". This again is the same kid who did nothing but glare at my son like she was ready to slug him the one and only time she has seen him. Oh and the reasoning for her acting like that you ask? She was "JUST BEING SHY"

I swear to GOD all the shit that woman has pulled and the second she acts nice for 5 minutes they are all just bubbling over and can't wait for her to bring her brat over.

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B22S22's picture

In my own personal opinion, if someone had an RO on my DH, the LAST thing I'd be doing is giving that person permission to be on my property.

If DH wants his DD to come over, why can't he go get daughter from the IL's, then take her back for the BM to pick her up there??

Although this "may" be a positive step, I'd still be hesitant given the legal implications already in place.

littlemommy's picture

I have no idea! BM isn't allowed at the IL's house bc she stole pills, dvds and checks, but I guess it's all well and good for her to come to our house and steal from us.

I refuse to see how any of this is a positive step, this woman is insane, I do not want her near me or my son. She doesn't do anything to be nice unless it somehow benefits her and she has already groomed SD into her perfect little sociopathic clone. I don't want either of them near my son.