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ugh....I knew I was gonna be back here as soon as SD came for a visit....

LaLaLaaa's picture

So 1st day she was here we r all sitting around the table eating breakfast...and it feels like there is a New MOM in towns...she jumped right iinto the role of Parenting my toddler...this is what she breakfast sounded like...."Don't chew with your month closed"..."No! You can't have any juice until you finish your bite"...""That's enough of juice"...etc etc...I was like...whf!?...am I invisible here!? Why is a 14 y old Kid trying to parent MY kid!?! And even on our walk.."No u can't go there!"..."No! Can't run"....Super Micromanaging g everything!! I don't care why she's doing it...actually I Know....her mother is a control freak...that's why

But I just want you ladies to tell me how to nicely let her know go back the *luck OFF...If I'm sitting at the table I will handle it...and I'm not controlling...I don't have the Neeeeed to micromanage etc...but I am the parent of My kid here so in this case...I push this kid out of me so I DO get to decide when she can have juice...etc...ya know!?

Its annoying to keep listening someone constant my telling "No!" To your baby...especially because I'm a very relaxed type of parent and try not to use worn NO a lot...but try and use other words..anyways u know what I'm getting at...Just want her to STOP acting like
Like a mini Mom! UGH!!!

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Gabriels Mom's picture

I tell SS "Thank you but it is not your job to parent DS. Your dad and I will handle it."

Gabriels Mom's picture

Dup

furkidsforme's picture

She's 14. You say "Hey SD, shut the fuck up!!!! You aren't her Mom"

But then you have to be sure to never, ever ask her to babysit. Double edged sword.