Ponies, unicorns and baby mommas.. oh my!
Well, another 2 weeks with the SD has come to an end. It went well for the most part. I felt like our relationship was truly growing, but I still have some issues...
*This is me venting - I know it's ridiculous, but maybe someone can help.
Baby mamma decided to take SD3 on friggin pony rides right before dropping her off with me and her dad. 2 weeks of her crying to go back to mommy's because she thinks she can ride a pony again. It's friggin Halloween... I got her the cutest unicorn costume, took her to a Halloween kids party with her friends, loaded her with candy and had a blast with her. I still am being told in between that mom has ponies and she wants to go home. It broke her father's heart to hear.
I understand that it's not a competition and that I shouldn't mind, but it just irritates me that BM is playing at this level. Am I going to have to take her to a flipping circus to make her happy? Then let BM's heart bre broken when she says she wants to be with us instead? I think it's wrong to spoil the hell out of her just for her to choose us. I also don't want to hear about her liking mom's house wayyy more.
What do I do? Where do I draw the line? Do I play this game that essentially could raise a spoiled brat? Do I just lewt her mother spoil her and watch her quit wanting to visit us? it's not like we can't do the same and beyond for SD3. Our income would allow us to buy her friggin ponies if we wanted to.
-I had a step sister growing up that quit coming around to see her father and spend time with her family because her mother did this very thing and it became all about money and material. I don't want to see that happen either.