HELP my husband just died
OK so its still early on since my Wonderful hubby passed.Unfortunaly he did not leave a will 2nd marriage for both of us. We kept everything separate thank the good Lord. I don't think he relized w/ 2nd marriage 50/50. I truly don't want nor need anything..However the problem lies with my step son....nolonger ! He has stolen lied manipulated been to jail throughout his youth andbis still doing horrific things. My husband always said if his lips are moving he's lying. Im executor so...My only problem is what if anything to give him. Im going to go exactly by the law . I plan on including my husbands (SS) 2 children in my will. Ive just started the probate and I know SS is going to be extremely angry when he figures out hes not getting EVERYTHING although he's been talking to people saying his Uncle hired an attorney and his father wanted him to have everything. Oh his name of choice for me is Evil pill popping Alcoholic! While i do take a few prescriptions I don't drink.....he has nasty words for his mother his minlaw....and constantly wanted to talk to me about how bad his father is/ was. Thats a very brief overview. I guess im looking for a lil support suggestions....I havnt heard a word or seen him since the funeral wich was a month ago. Anyone ever been in this situation? My lawyer said I don't have to speak to him..I did put in a new alarm system with cameras. Looking forward to any insight...I shouldn't be this upset about him I did so so much for him. I guess that's what hurts.