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justmakingthebest's picture

I am sure since this is a few of years old that it has been posted before. My MIL sent it to me last night. It is sad to say that SS is exhibiting each and every one of these...

https://www.socialworktoday.com/archive/102708p26.shtml

 

 

 

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Healyourslf's picture

I only wish the article expanded on this particular area -

"the targeted parent should be taught a series of responses to parental alienation that can allow the targeted parent to maintain the high road while not becoming overly passive or reactive." 

If you ever run across information on this, please pass it along. Any clinical information that would enlighten DH and I to better contend with PAS is invaluable. It's like we're in a grieving process vacillating between avoiding and accepting alienation. 

We still hope that SD will eventuallly seek a therapist. However, BM is disordered and "alienation" is a generational response to dealing with the emotional discomfort of divorce on her side. She is from a highly dysfunctional family. Based on PAS "generational" studies, this fact weighs heavy on any positive outcome. SD, who is now an adult, displays the same personality disorders that BM has.  Be it nature or nurture, the clinically-defined traits of NPD are present.  Sadly, everything I've read on NPD is dismaying with little hope of a turnaround. We are still coming to terms with accepting the fact that PAS may not resolve and we need help with this process.

justmakingthebest's picture

We go to court next week and we are praying the the judge will award us more time and order counseling for DH and SS. We already found a therapist that does a lot of work with reconnecting kids with alientated parents. BM would stop the appointments if she could though. We need that order. 

Healyourslf's picture

I hope you get the order and MORE!  My mom always said, "cream rises to the top."