I dont get it
You all have heard me rant about manipulative, BPD SD59 but surprise, this isn't about her, it's DH. SD comes over about once a week, today she was here to cut DH's hair.
Since I disengaged 4 years ago after many misdeeds, I seldom talk to SD in any depth. But once in awhile, we do talk, usually about finances connected to our subsidizing her shelter costs. I can tell DH loves me to talk with her. Invariably, DH interrupts, calls attention to himself and disrupts the conversation. I've started calling him out about it, not that it's stopped him. It's gotten to the point last week where SD said, that's ok, Dad, you can interrupt. Today, she and I had a discussion then I callled her later to follow up on something. As I was talking to her, he was standing in front of me,screaming, "Tell her she forgot her gloves, tell her she forgot her gloves!" When I got off the phone, I exploded. "SD59 and I have a so-so relationship.but I know you want me to talk with her but every time I do, you interrupt! Next time, I'm just walking away".
I'm not sure what's going on. So aggravating.