Last weekend was absolutely the last straw for me. My SD told my husband that we needed to respect her screw up of a mother more. You know, her mother who lets her do anything and everything she wants to do. So now it's going on two months now and she's still not coming for her visitation with us. Needless to say, I got some boxes and packed all her crap and put it in the shed, and gave her nice big room to her brother. Who, by the way, thanked me for the room and was very appreciative! So now I will take his old, much smaller room for my office happily. Now I'll be able to actually have a real bedroom again. I am still so terribly hurt by her turning her back on us like we meant nothing to her, but I am soldiering on and we can't live our lives waiting for her. She can come over any time she wants, but there has to be respect for ME and her father in our house. My bio daughter misses her terribly and I just hate that part the most. But you just can't control the actions of others, but wouldn't it be nice if we could? IN MY DREAMS!