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What a HELL of a weekend!!!

Itwillgetbetter's picture

Ok this to me is kiddie crap but im going to explain it and you guys tell me what you think. This weekend my BF my son, and BF nephew went to go pick up SD at her house. When we picked her up BF nephew moved over to middle seat with no problem. SD gets in and we all go to my moms house. These are all 9 year old children. But anyway make a long story short when it was time to leave my mothers house my son was in the car and i notice SD standing next to the car waiting for BF nephew to get in so i hear BF nephew tell SD to get in the car what was she waiting for. SO my BF tells his nephew "oh just get in whats the big deal"!!!. I couldnt hold it in so i said if its not a big deal then why is your daughter standing there waiting for him to get in. And he says that his nephew always makes her sit in the middle. And i couldnt believe that he was getting into this kiddie crap. Then he tells me that my son and his nephew always pick on his daughter when the nephew is around. Now this bothers me because he never hears when his daughter is picking on them or saying mean things to them. I constantly have to be pointing out things to him and its tireing. 1 main thing that bothered me so much one day was his nephew stayed over so i gave him a blanket and a pillow so him and my son switched pillows with each other but now SD wants the pillow that my son has claiming hers is too fluffy. Mind you she has been sleeping with the same pillow the whole week without no problem. BF tells my son to give her his pillow and my son listening gives it to her. Is this wrong? does anyone else see this as wrong? I feeel like im looking for things but shit like this bothers the shit out of me. Some advice please.

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deew.001's picture

if they are not in the car by the time you are in the car and it is running then leave their lil ass right there where they stand i bet you they wont fight over who's getting in the car agian cause they asses will be walking haha.....and the pillow thing i would have taken all the pillows and they would have nothing.....i dont play the whole i want that one she/he can have this one noooooo you get what the hell i give you end of story!and your dh.....if his bd can dish out the madness she can take the madness from the boys....i have a daughter 3 and 2 boys ss12 and bs 4 i make them play with her....bad mom huh make the boys play with her...haha well shes an only girl and its not fair i think that she has to play alone so not fair in my book.........keep ya head up and put ya foot down