I don't think shes ready. SD is 2 1/2 and everything I've read says you shouldn't try to potty train if they haven't reached certain developmental stages. BM has been putting her on the potty every hour by the hour so of course shes bound to go a couple times in the potty but she doesn't understand the point. All she knows is that music plays and she gets a treat.

I've had her in panties all day hoping that if she had an accident it would be uncomfortable and she would want to go on the potty. NOPE. She doesnt let us know when she has to go. Sitting in wet panties does not phase her at all, not even a little bit. She doesnt even tell us that shes had an accident and she doesnt do anything special when shes going, its like shes completely oblivious.

Tips? Thoughts? i am at a loss here and now she is crying because I told her to take her wet panties off. I'm sorry but that just grosses me the heck out, I dont understand why BM is soooo gungho about potty training her right now and gets mad if we're not doing it her way but I really dont think putting her on there every hour is teaching her anything. Its just me and SD till 6pm today so please someone help me before I rip my hair out!