So a month or so ago, BM tells DH that she would like to send SD16 to Denver to see BMs parents.  SD is Currently doing a summer program because she failed a class (got D's for the rest..barely passing ).  DH said she should not be able to go on trips as she has another trip scheduled in September (Hawaii with a friends family).  BM once again said  'well she tried and it's to see family..'.  BM always downplays any situation.  We knew the date of when SD was leaving (today)..and received the trip itinerary from BM.  Well dummy sent us an incorrect itinerary, failed to tell us that SD16 has 2 layovers each way! Now, why in the world would you send this kid that has ADHD and can't remember to shower/eat without being told...across the country by herself with 2 layovers?!? So DH was furious but can't say anything because at the time the flight info was given to us, she was in the sky.  He was also a bit upset that she did not even say 'bye'-'I've landed'-nothing. (She updates BM every 10minutes when we take trips..just saying)

to make matters worse, we find out from my daughter that this trip was planned by SD during this particular time because her 'significant other' (whom she met online and has only met in person once..) is going to be in Denver the same time!!...So once again she has manipulated BM to do something, with other motives.  Although in all fairness, sometimes BM just goes with it and agrees and omits the truth from DH....

DH is possed and I'm obviously annoyed...but it is what it is.  It's been 10yrs of BM doing things like this and it isn't going to change.  I just sit back..and enjoy no SD for the next week...