So over it.
HCBM is an understatement. We deal with an ultimate GU. She is reminiscent of Michelle Pfeifers character in White Oleander. A recent move has put us within ten minutes of each other which started out great. But being the single target of any and all of her anger has become incredibly tiresome. My SD is a delightful smart and kind child. So our issues are solely BM related. She’s recently been on this MY child kick, meaning everything leads back to my SD needing to be around her because “she’s her f***ing mother” which as you can all relate is just nauseating.
I’m mostly just venting with this entry. All I know is since the move my DH and I have been more than nice and helpful to her and her other kids and husband. But now her niceness has worn off and all we get is hate and bitterness. I’m just so over it. I will continue to be nice and accommodating because that’s the kind of person I am.
Most recently she told SD to lie to DH about something trivial. Why? Who the heck knows.
I guess if there’s any advice I’m looking for it would be how to support my SD during her mother’s ridiculous rage sessions against us. I hate that this kid is stuck in the middle and her BM does not hesitate to bash us and complain about us in front of and to her. Luckily my SD isn’t falling for it but I know it’s not easy for her to have to listen to. I struggle with how to explain why I can’t take her to do certain things because her mom wants to do them with her first etc
Thanks for reading. And if it’s choppy I apologize I’m on my phone.