She is still on the crazy train....all abbbbboooooorrrddddd....

On Friday evening SD asked if we could get the following from her mother's house.

Her iphone, Her chargers,Her Vans (shoes),Her airpods.

DH said, ok we will text your mom and see about getting them.  DH sends the following:

Beaver, SD would like to get the following from your house. iphone, chargers, vans and airpods.  Please le me know when you will be home and I can come pick up these items.  Thank you .

Beaver:  I won't be home till Sunday.  SD can pick them up them.

DH:  Ok,  I will send you a text messages when I am on my way on Sunday. 

Sunday rolls around and we, DH and I, head to get SD's stuff. 

Get there and DH has to go to the door.  Beaver hands him a bag and says, "I don't know where SD's phone is and only she can get it.  I'm not giving it to you.  I will only give it to SD personally"   Beaver looked PISSED because it wasn't SD coming in to the get her items.

DH comes back to the car we call SD on my DD's  phone and ask SD where the phone is. Its on her nightstand..not hard to miss.  Send Beaver the following:

The phone is on SD's nightstand by the lamp.  Please bring it out.

We barely got the text message sent, and the phone is chucked out the door and onto the porch.  DH went and got it.  We didn't even get out of the parking space (Beaver lives in a condo complex) and Beaver was facetiming SD asking where she was, why wasn't she there, how dare DH not bring her.     Beaver was lucky because our next step was to call the police to retrieve our property since the phone is in our name, bought and paid for by us.

SD was like i'm at home, and I don't know why they were already out and stopped.  (DD was in the room next to SD's so she could hear)

Sure Beaver we were going to bring SD with us so you could either.

1.  Browbeat SD while she was in your beaver dam getting her stuff. or

2.  Not let SD leave once she was in the beaver dam

not only that..you just assulted SD earlier in the week.  WHY would we bring her back to where it happened?  As I pointed out  to DH ...abusers hold there victims possessions hostage to get them to come to them.  That is what Beaver was attempting to do.  She knew where that phone was but was going to try and hold it hostage so that SD would have to come into the house.  She wanted to get SD alone so she could browbeat her and/or keep her.  

Nice try Beaver....8 years of abuse by my ex will teach ya a thing or two about abusive tactics.

The CPS visit.

This was pretty benign.  He came and talked to DH and I. We told him our concerns about Beaver's paranioa, the threats to SD possessions, the fight and the fact she doesn't control/monitor SD's ADHD meds, GWR's drug abuse, etc.  WE provided hime copies of the text messages SD sent, the information on the GWR "prank, etc.

The cps agent talked to SD and then talked to us again.  He is concerned that there seems to be something going on at Beaver's (ya think) and that he will interview SD with Beaver next Monday.  He toured our  house and just made sure that SD had her ownr room, there was food, etc.  We have to send SD to Beaver's on Friday.  After her interviews SD and Beaver he will make his reccomendations.  

Nutshell..Beaver acts like a tool and now we wait.