Golden Child..does your BM have one???
Beaver I am pretty sure is a boarderline personality disordered person. She fits almost all the criteria.
In true BPD fashion Beaver and her whole family (who I believe are all personality disordered in some fashion) have a golden child and a scape goat.
The Great White Rapper (GWR) is the golden child for Beaver and her beaver dam. Why...not sure.
1. It could be he was the first born and the first grandchild.
2. It could be that he is the more easily lead and influanced (aka controled)
3. It could be that he himself shows signs of BPD.
SD...is decidedly the scape goat for Beaver and the beaver dam.
Beaver has flat out told SD that she should have never had had her and that she wishes SD had never been born. As recent as last week in a text message. This seems to be a phrase uttered to SD when she dare critize GWR or tell Beaver that she does not wish to talk about GWR all the time. Beaver will however sing praises to the GWR to the high heavens. They way she talks about GWR you would think this kid legit walks on water.
Beavers brother, Welfare Twin number 1 has told SD that he hates her and that she is not part of the family. WTF.
Last weekend Mr. Beaver Sr (Boppa to GWR and SD) bought GWR a brand spanking new MacBook, to the tune of almost 2k. Why, because GWR ASKED for it. SD got nothing. SD then asked for a MacBook and was told no. Apparently, however in a brief moment of feeling guilty Mr. Beaver Sr bought SD a pair of new Airpods to replace the ones she lost in the lake while fishing with him.
Beaver will ignore GWR smoking weed and doing drugs in the house. He is just troubled and she doesn't want to upset him. SD gets her phone taken away for saying Jeazus Christ in the presence of Beaver.
Beaver bought GWR a brand new 60 inch TV for his room in the basement (so cliche...stoner kid living in mom's basement) because he needed it for his gaming. SD got...you guessed it nothing.
So...does your HCBM have golden child....and if so does the rest of the family follow suit?
And for added bonus...Beaver was the golden child in her family and the brother that told SD he hated her...was the scape goat for that family. He is now an alcoholic with 8 dui's to date.