B*ver has boarded the crazy train.
All aboard...the crazy train has left the station. I mean I think she has bought a lifetime ticket to ride.
Highlights from yesterdays conversation with SD..
1. Beaver tells the kids we stalk her all the time. We drive by her house everyday and drive by her work everyday al well.
2. We spy on her at her house using the camera on SD's ipad/iphone. We log into the camera and listen in to her conversations.
3. We have installed apps on her iphone/ipad to track not only SD but Beaver as well.
4. Beaver has a restraining order against me and I can't come with in 20 feet of her.
5. Dh text messages her all the time asking to come back to her.
6. That when the kids were little, I would bring over my two kids to her house when I was fighting with DH. Even SD said..that makes no sense whatsoever.
7. If DH is a few minutes early to pick up SD from Beaver's on the rare occasion he has too..Beaver will not let her leave until it is the exact time. SD admitted this one was stupid and annoying because all they do is sit there in silence waiting for the minutes to go by.
8. Sd is not allowed to take pictures are Beavers because we might see the house.
9. Beaver tells the kids she will beat me up the next time I talk to her.
10. Beaver will break her ipad/iphone because DH bought those for her. Then DH will have to replace them.
Ok...so we had to break this down for SD.
1. No we do not stalk your mother. Outside of how it relates to you SD...Dh does not contact your mother. Halo has never in 13 years contacted your mother. We do not drive by your mom's house. Halo drives out that way once every 5 weeks on a major road to get to her hair dresser. When doing that she in Halo's mom's car and has Halo's mom and Halos DD in the car with her. I do not drive by your mother's unless I am picking you up. Halo drives a BIG Suv with personalized license plates. I drive a car with personalized license plates and both Halo's DD and DS have personalized plates. If we were stalking your mother, why didn't she call the police and give them our plate numbers. The police would visit us and tell us to stop. None of that has happened.
2. HOw in the hell can we spy on your mom using your ipad/iphone camera. WE don't even know if that is possible. Again, SD unless it pertains to you..WE DO NOT care what your mom does. And if she is so paranoid about it....what is she hiding? We have nothing to hide so we do not care if she takes pictures, videos at our house. Go for it..
3. There are no apps installed on your ipad/iphone to track your or your mother. You have not given us any reason to put any apps like that on your phone and voluntarily will give it to us when we want to check your usage.
4. There is no restraining order against Halo. If there was Halo would have been notfied and Halo does not and has never interacted with your mother. So how could your mother get a restraining order against her? Also, if she did have a restraining order why has she not called the police to have Halo arrested if Halo is stalking her? Next time your mother says that, ask to see the restraining order. WE bet she will not be able to show it since it doesn't exist.
5. Sd I do not text your mother to get back together. I am happily married to Halo and have been for over 10 years. Again, the next time your mother tells you this, ask to see proof. I text your mother only things regarding you and even then only when its absolutely necessary. Otherwise I use Our Family Wizard to communicate. If you have any questions on what I have sent your mother, please just ask. I have nothing to hide.
6. Halo has not now or ever been to your mother's house, either alone or with DD/DS. You may ask Halo's DD and DS and they will tell you the same. We encourge you to ask Halo's DD and DS so that you may hear the truth yourself. The only time Halo's DD and DS were at your mother's house was when they went there with Halo's DD and DS's father.
7. SD having to wait for a few minutes is petty and ridiculous. We do not make you wait when your mother is a few minutes early. In the grand scheme of things a few minutes is just a drop in the bucket. We will never do that to you.
8. SD what is your mother trying to hide if she doesn't want pictures taken? We have nothing to hide so snap away here. Our only rule is no nudity of anyone and no pictures while you are using the bathroom to shower, etc. Other than that...WE DO NOT CARE. Again..we have nothing to hide. We also do not care about your mother's house.
9. SD since Halo does not ever approach your mother in a public setting with me and your nor does she contact your mother outside events for you, how will this possible? Plus, why would your mother want to? Halo has done nothing to her. SD if your mother was to lay a hand on Halo that is assult and would be a crime.
10. SD those are your possessions. That would a crime to destroy your property. Why would your mother threaten to destroy your property?? What would that solve? We are sorry you have to fear that your possessions will be destroyed because they were boughten by your father. Your mother is free to buy you those items if she wishes.
There is so much more...but this was the highlights.
SD did admit alot of what Beaver tells her seems to be crazy. SD also asked why her mother was so immature and why can"t she just move on already.