So, it's been awhile since I have blogged about anything. Ok, so a quick catch up...I am a 25 y/o female with 2 SKs, SD6 and SS4. Me as well as my BF are both in the military. Beings though the military is on a cut down on the people in the service my BF is getting let go, and I have another year on my contract, but I seem to be getting let go as well as soon as my contract is up. Thing is I leave from our duty station and will be getting sent to a new command in the next 2 days. While I'm soooo happy to get away from the hell hole of my job that I work at and the people that I work with, but in the same breath I'm going to miss my BF, and even my SKs. Yes, even my SD. Even though she does still drives me crazy. But I have realized that she's only going to do what she gets away with and what she is taught (BM). I'm trying though, I'm trying. I really love my BF, and I see a wonderful future with my BF. He has been there for me through a lot that I have been going through. My family loves him and my friends loves him as well. Like I told him before I don't see his kids as baggage, but a blessing, and I mean it...lol

Anywho, BF is going to come where I am stationed beings though he has been there before he is more then likely be able to get a good job out there since everyone knows his work, and also beings though BM will also be going back home which just so happens to be where I'm stationed....smh....It works for all of us. Kids will still be able to spend their weekends with their mother, and I get to have my Hubby near...She's pretty damn lucky I got stationed where she lives, cause my hubby wants to be near me as well, and the courts already stated that if we are 100 miles or more away she gets them during their summer vacation. Thing is receiving end have to pay for the kids to get to them, and beings though she's lazy as fuck and just don't know how to manage her finances. So in other words she knows that she wouldn't be able to get her kids. Now I would never want to take children from their mother, but it gets crazy when every single time she get's the kids the phone is going off the hook!!! She can't handle the kids, what should she do, can we get the kids (same day we drop them off???)...And the list goes on. Sooo, at times it's like it's no point. She can't make up her mind in what she wants. She tries to find anything to go off on my BF about.....lol, she tried to say that he owes her half of his income taxes...lol...He just told her that he has talked with the lawyers as well as the tax people and uhhh nah, it don't work like that. He even gave the numbers to call so she could find out for herself. She didn't like that too much. BM is always "give me give me give me"...smh...lol, she even tried to call herself "making him feel bad" so he could give her his GI BILL to use to go back to school....lmao!!! I couldn't stop laughing. Saying that it's his fault that she's stuck out here (on an island) with no family and nowhere to go or way to get back home. When get this she was given a chance where the military was going to pay for her to go back home, but she turned it down!!! AND FYI SHE WAS THE ONE WHO CHEATED MULTIPLE TIMES in the marriage...Sooo, her fault not his. Not his fault he said enough was enough when they were here. But I think a woman who drops her kids off at a daycare, empties out your "joint bank account" (cause she's NEVER worked) and hops on a plane and flies across the world, not state, not country, across the WORLD! To be with another man that she met while they were going through there to come to here, and that's just to add onto the secret relationship she was having with some man that was staying in his house when he was on deployments....smh...And that's not the worst...trust this woman is lucky she got what she got. She only has to pay 100 a month for child support, that she doesn't pay. 50 for each kid, and nothing!

Oh God, I did not think I was going to get into the whole BM mess on this blog...lol...This blog was for me to vent about me and my move away from my BF and my SKs for either 2 months or a year. lol