My husband just recently got full custody of his 13 year old daughter. Her and I get a long fine, that's not the problem. The problem is my husband's actions towards me. He treats me like I'm a second wife and his daughter's needs definately come before mine. I have two daughters from previous marriage that are grown and already moved out. This has been very difficult for me to stay in the marriage when I feel like I don't have a "voice" in my own home. When I talk to him about it, he gets VERY defensive and says that I'm just being crazy. But I feel what I feel. He's not loving and there's a huge void in my heart. I've been a real witch to him but it's because I don't feel important in his life anymore. He's strickly in 'Dad mode'. Keep in mind, for 6 years, it was just him and his daughter. I honestly don't think he knows how to show love to two people in the household so he just shows it to his daughter. He tells her everything about his day and him and I don't speak much anymore. Any advice for this would be greatly appreciated.