I did something dumb
I looked at BM’s fb and got a stomach ache over all of the lies. She paints this rosy picture of her life and who she is. All of it is absolute bullcrap.
DH was disappointed in me for “diving into the muck” and giving her power over my mind. He chooses to ignore her. He is wise.
Gosh I feel sorry for this man. He lived with a profound liar for years. I promise myself to always have my gameface on when SD13 visits because no matter how good I think she is and how sweet she is to my DS, her little bro, for she is being raised by an incredible manipulator. There is no telling what she could be convinced to do in order to earn mommy’s false love. And as for DH’s oldest grown son, when he comes by which is very rare, I simply leave. He is so in love with his mommy, I can’t imagine how much he would enjoy bringing me trouble.
Oh but I deserve it. I love his father. What a horrible creature i am. Lol