I just don't know anymore...I do but I dont want to
So the last time I blogged I didn't hear what I wanted to hear back. It took me awhile to realize that was ok and I did feel bad to the people that upset me. I mean...we are strangers in "computers".
So it has been almost a school year since my post that my SS11 takes a My Little Pony backpack to school. And that was never the issue...the issue was my husband was not talked to regarding it. And to anyone that says it doesnt matter why would he need to be? Well he has 50/50. That is why. The only thing that isnt is that my husband has to get his son to school in order to have this placement. The ex wife doesnt have to spend extra on gas etc.
Anyway... so its come to our attention that during standardized testing they ask extra questions and SS11 answered YES to that he thinks about hurting himself.
Pisses me off that the school only called the mom and she went in to talk about it without my husband knowing anything. And the mom/ex called my husband. Boils down to bullying...various reasons...not just the back pack. But the ex feels the school should be responsible when I feel she needs to step up and parent and say no and advise etc. But whatever. Keep telling myself NOT MY KID but hard to stick to that negative feeling when I feel I am the only one who truly cares.
But whoever wastes their time reading this..I'm sorry. I dont even know what I want to hear from anyone. I have been done with my husband for months now ... he doesnt communicate no matter how hard I try...because he is a lazy father and when I married him and went thru all this custody battle (which I think was mainly me wanting better for his son) I thought my husband would be better. As i tell everyone... he is amazing with my BD16 and all my daycare kids. Just not his own.
My husband knows his flaws etc but does nothing to change. Just feels sorry for himself. And has excuse after excuse or just says he is a bad father.
Sigh. Thanks for letting me vent.